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 “Hey, do I know you?” “Have we met each other before this?” These are some of the terms that we use to use when we know that the person to whom we are talking right now is the same person I have met before, but really not able to remember: How, when and most importantly, why I met him or her. I know that I have met this guy or lady before, but really not able to split out his or her name even when it is on the tip of my tongue (Quite ironic but true). And the thing gets even exacerbated when the dialogue between such persons becomes perennial when they meet for the 2nd time without knowing exacting to whom they are talking right now. For the matter of fact, this is quite often observed in women, where to have a dialogue, they even need not to have a topic. Initially they use to feel the glimpse of Déjà Vu (A common inherent disease found in most of the women due to high concentration of loquacity, chit-chat and backtalk). But, they use to completely obliviate why and for what purpose they had the rendezvous at 1st instance and never bother to discuss about it since they always have a fresh topic to talk about. Though it is hard to believe (especially for men) that a common discussion started on a buying a pair of sandals can go on for infinite, an eerie symptom of this non curable disease – Déjà Vu, makes them sarcastically cynosure for so many reasons.

If Déjà Vu is an inherent disease for girls then I guess it is an adopted one for boys. In today’s world, having a girlfriend for a boy has become a very common thing. I wonder, what could be the first line that a boy ought to speak to his girlfriend when they meet for the 1st time. Is it “Hey, I am having this Déjà Vu that we have met before this?” or is it the best spell of magic usurped from them only to have a start to get the conversation move forward and who cares whether the same boy had met her or her replica. This is where I remember the advertisement of the Imperial Blue saying “Men will be men”( To be more precise, the one with lift scene).

But, usurping this best spell from women is just ephemeral. Because, once you get married you will have a real taste of life. And the humiliation reaches to its zenith when men have to introduce them to others with a quote of “Meet my better-half”. Does that mean, is she my wife? Or is she better than me because the other half i.e. me is no longer of any good. It has to be the latter one since, once you get married, they will never give a chance to prove yourself good. A day to day quarrel with them is a better epitome to illustrate this. It’s in their nature to start the day with a scold on the silly thing of tea and then take the argument to the next level. You will never realize first on what topic they had started this and you will never get a chance to prove your point since they won’t let you. Every day you will get this Déjà Vu that “I had the same fight on same topic few days back (with her only, of course)” but don’t remember when, but you do remember who was the winner and the judgment went to whose side. Here, the protagonist has to be these ladies since, they only will be the judge to decide the winner and you will be there only for namesake to have someone to fight against (A mere toy you can say). The best thing about this is that you will get constantly reminded of this Déjà Vu, but it will become so common that you have to nurture repercussions of  these so called Déjà Vu to keep the boat of marriage life floating. 

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